31 Days Of I Love Myself Enough : Day 30
DAY THIRTY: I LOVE MYSELF ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT I AM WORTHY SIMPLY BECAUSE I AM ME
This was another game changer for me!!
I grew up believing that I was worthless. I didn’t feel worthy of anything; love, friendships, relationships or even the good things in life.
It wasn’t a great feeling.
For a long time, I genuinely believed that I had to earn my worth. That I had to be good enough, do enough, give enough or be enough for other people to love, accept and value me.
And if someone didn’t like me, approve of me or treat me well, I would automatically assume that there was something wrong with ME.
Louise Hay and her teachings helped me to change all that.
Gradually, over time, I began to realise that I WAS worthy and, more importantly, that I ALWAYS HAD BEEN.
My worth had never been missing. I had simply spent so many years believing that it was.
I stopped giving other people’s opinions of me so much power. I stopped looking outside of myself for validation and started to turn my attention inwards.
I began focusing on loving myself, accepting myself and doing things that genuinely brought me joy.
I noticed that i started feeling differently:
I became happier. More content. More comfortable in my own skin. I started making choices that felt aligned with the woman I was becoming, rather than the woman I thought other people wanted me to be.
I also began to understand something that I wish every woman knew:
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO EARN YOUR WORTH.
You don’t have to be perfect.
You don’t have to please everybody.
You don’t have to achieve great things.
You don’t have to prove yourself.
You don’t have to be somebody other than who you are.
You are worthy on your good days and your not-so-good days.
You are worthy when you get things right and when you get things wrong.
You are worthy when you’re achieving great things and when you’re simply finding your way through life.
Your worth is not up for negotiation. It isn’t determined by somebody else’s opinion, their inability to see your value or the way they choose to treat you.
It belongs to YOU.
And the most beautiful thing about recognising your worth is that you stop settling for things that make you question it.
You start treating yourself differently. You make different choices. You become more mindful of who you allow into your life and what you are prepared to accept.
Not because you think you’re better than anyone else, but because you finally understand that YOU MATTER TOO.
Here’s a gentle reminder:
YOU ARE NOT WORTHY BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU DO. YOU ARE NOT WORTHY BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU GIVE. YOU ARE NOT WORTHY BECAUSE OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU.
YOU ARE WORTHY SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU ARE YOU.
You always have been.
TODAY’S AFFIRMATION:
I AM WORTHY. I AM DESERVING. I AM ENOUGH. I LOVE AND ACCEPT MYSELF JUST AS I AM.
Sending you all so much love from my heart to yours 
Lynn
