When Are You Going to Stop Struggling and Ask for Support?

May I share a recent experience with you?
Since arriving back from New Zealand on the 7th Feb earlier this year, I have been feeling tired, but also something else…
I wasn’t quite sure what the something else was… so I did what I invite my clients and community to do, dig deep.
I felt as though I had been struggling to get myself motivated to do the work I love to do, no matter how hard I tried to motivate myself it wasn’t working.
I knew something had to change…
As Wayne Dyer so brilliantly says, ‘If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got.’ (maybe I am paraphrasing, but you get the picture).
I looked at what I had been doing, which wasn’t working so I reached out and asked for support.
I reached out to people I knew and trusted and loved.
I reached out to 2 other Heal Your Life teachers and put an idea forward and I asked for their support.
The idea I put forward was, how did they feel about having a planning day?
Their answer came back that they were not expecting such a request but they were very open to it and willing to join me in working together planning the next few months.
A couple of weeks ago I travelled to their beautiful home and spent the weekend with them. We spent all day Saturday doing some deep inner work, because there’s no point doing any planning until you do that!!
We all had ‘aha’ moments. I felt a HUGE shift in my body and in my mind.
I woke up Sunday morning a completely different person to the person who had arrived the previous day.
I felt ALIVE!! I felt MOTIVATED!! I felt INSPIRED!!
I felt HAPPY!! I felt JOYOUS!! I felt SUPPORTED!!
I felt LISTENED TO!! I felt HEARD!! I felt VALUED!!
I FELT IN COMPLETE ALIGNMENT.
On Sunday we all spent a few hours transferring our ideas into our diary. It felt so good to do that. I felt lit up again!!
I now have Queen for a Day Retreats in my diary for this year as well as Heal Your Life Workshops (both in person and online).
The weekend wasn’t just about putting these offerings in the diary, the inner work was deep, it was looking at ourselves… our dreams… our whys… and so much more.
I am pleased to say that the first of the Queen for a Day retreats on the 15th June, sold out last night. That’s because I am now in alignment.
None of this would be possible if I had not reached out and asked for help and support.
I was struggling on my own.
I had a choice, to continue to struggle on my own and feel like I did, or, reach out and ask for help and support.
My invitation to you all is, really look at where you are right now… is it where you want to be… are you feeling good or are you feeling helpless?
Who can you reach out to for support?
Please reach out. It will make such a difference.
Sending so much love from my heart to yours.
Lynn
P.S. I have been in the process of changing my website now for a few months, as I don’t feel it reflects who I am today. I have removed some offerings and will include new ones. My fabulous website team have come up with a new logo and colour scheme which will be revealed shortly.
Something else which came from the weekend I described above is that I have decided to name my newsletter – Love Notes from Lynn.
I hope you like the new name, it feels more intimate, more personal, rather than newsletter. I am excited about these changes. NOTHING ever stays the same. More changes are yet to come. I remain passionate and compassionate about serving you all.
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